Create and launch new interesting singles dating website called 1GF

I need to put together a creative singles website that can stand growth and not crash as the site grows,photos are uploaded and web traffic increases. I have a great domain and all I need is a strong script with no bugs to go with it. I would need the latest chat technology , IM, mobile phone compatibility, shopping cart & credit card setup and languages capabilities for international members.. In addition I will be looking for a person or company to stay with me to handle site maintenance for a monthly fee not immediately but once the site starts to get traffic and start to encounter programming changes or updates etc. I think that this is a great oppurtunity for someone to jump on board and watch this company grow and be a big part of it. My website name will be [login to view URL] So if you're seeking one girlfriend just go to [login to view URL] : ) If you have a ton of programming experience dealing with dating online and singles sites you may be perfect for the job. I will be seeking hosting advice and opinions based on what direction I should take because average hosting will not be a good idea when you're talking about millions of future members ..This first project is just the beginning..good luck and Im very interested in hearing your thoughts and by the way I love the website Japan Cupid dot com, I'd love a site that can compete with that on design and member services.. thanks..