Custom facebook sharing or rendering concerning link video posts

I will try to describe the project cleanly. What I want is to share a video to my facebook fan page. It should be link share and the video icon and video thumbnail should be visible, when shared. After a user press the play button, the video post should disappear and the new post should overlay a header, an embedded youtube video and an html button which links to something like link linkref="+19044564534" Call me Please watch the video [login to view URL] here, especially the one between 20th and 35th minutes and I want the same functionality.